Convincing Elderly Parents to Move to Assisted Living

Try standing in their shoes, and you will know their pain and struggles. No parents want to leave their children, but sometimes it’s even more difficult for the children to make this decision. Talk to them and tell your seniors how it will improve their lives. This way, the seniors should empathize with the situation and agree. 

Convincing Elderly Parents to Move to Assisted Living
Convincing Elderly Parents to Move to Assisted Living

Lay the Groundwork

You should definitely talk to them about this issue way before the need arises, mention this topic from time to time. By doing this, your parents will have more time to think about and make the best decision for them and their family. Don’t just approach your parents as though you’ve made your decision, they will feel offended.

Discuss with Siblings/Family

Find various options and solutions beforehand and make sure your family agrees to your decision. You will minimize potential tension and arguments that may arise. What’s more, your siblings can even help you find more options that are available.

Listen to Them

Listen to Them
Listen to Them

Refusing and protesting coming from your elderly parents is perfectly normal, as nobody wants to be left behind by their children. This is why you should listen to what they have to say, and empathize with them. Understanding their feelings is one of many ways to find the best solution for their situation. You will also build their trust along the way, making it much easier to convince them later on.

Tell Them It’s Their Second Home

Most of the elderly people think that assisted living means the end. Do your best to persuade them that it’s not. Assisted living facilities are very different from nursing homes, they provide a more home-like environment and the seniors can actually have more chances to do their favorite activities, which is a huge benefit. A quality facility can offer healthy social community, independence, and peace for the elderly people, helping them gain a more positive outlook at life. 

List the Benefits

List the Benefits
List the Benefits

Your parents might be convinced after hearing about the wonderful benefits that assisted living can bring, such as not dealing with housework, feeling less lonely, doing recreational activities, living in an open area, socializing with fellow seniors, getting help from those that have caregiver jobs. Your elderly parents will have a wonderful time spending their days there.

Search for Help

It is a good idea to seek a third party to help with the problem when you and your parents can no longer discuss the issue peacefully. Try finding a trusted counselor, or a physician, to solve the tension between the two parties. There are lots of physician jobs that are in demand, so finding one should be an easy task.

Seek Friends

Seek Friends
Seek Friends

If your parents’ friends are living in an assisted living facility, tell that friend to convince your parents to join in with them. This is an effective method because your parents can be easily persuaded, as they can at least share the environment with someone who’s close to them. 

Conclusion

Nobody likes being forced to do what they don’t like, you should avoid pushing your parents into the matter. You would need a lot of time convincing your parents, it could be weeks, months, or even years, but whatever you do, you must let them decide on their free will.